In Her Own Words
About her
My friend has written this profile so please forgive any spelling mistakes or grammar.
Why has my friend written this?
Mainly because she is not good at 'selling herself' and find the process uncomfortable. However, in her professional and personal life, she can put my mind to most things.
Alison is looking for a kind caring, loving and independent man who is looking for someone for the long term. She is adventurous, ambitious, confident, easygoing, faithful and generous.
She is fiercely independent and optimistic but also very loyal and loving but can be shy on first encounter and slightly unease. Get to know her and shes great fun, enthusiastic, exciting and smart.
Be aware she won't like right-wing political views or any form of racial intolerance. No Trump or Frage types or those who admire money and material wealth or come with very macho approach. You won't need to rescue her - she is very capable.
In general you should get to know her because she is totally a rare gem - someone who is loyal, honest, interesting and great to get on with. Respect comes to mind and that works both ways. She is great fun to be with and will try her hand at most things. Open conversation and trust are a must!
About her ideal match
She is looking for a man who is single or divorced/separated and without complications. If you are still married or in a complicated relationship, unable to make compromises and meet her halfway - she won't be for you.
The ideal man must have a good sense of humour, be creative, intelligent, have some emotional intelligence. Must like the outdoors (dogs) and be active. Be adventurous willing to try some sports (swimming, paddle boarding) be inspired by creativity and arts and culture and want to do things like go to theatre, galleries, shows and events. Enjoy travel and have some ideas for trips that you would like to go on.
You would need to be a Guardian reader - be familiar with popular culture (TV/ documentaries/ dramas etc) be interested in society/world affairs/care for the vulnerable and those without.
If you have got this far and are interested in connecting with Alison - that's great!
In your connection request please start your message with the words "Clear the cookies" and tell me why you think she might match for you and where would you take her on a first date. ?
She is also expecting the ideal match to be living nearby her - so tell us a local place you know that you like or would go to on a regular basis.
Thanks - I will pass on the best recommendations.
BTW this profile was updated on 9th Jan 2025.
So if you have already sent a message before then - you will need to send another. :-)
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Merton (Kingston on Thames), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
Ask me later | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Romanian; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district KT2 (Kingston upon Thames) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Shy; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Date activities: |
A movie; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Canoeing; Dance; Hiking; Rowing; Running; Sailing; Snorkeling; Wakeboarding; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Saga Connections: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Extremely |