AlifinStar

57 – Merton (Kingston on Thames), London, England

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AlifinStar

57 – Merton (Kingston on Thames), London, England

Wine, food, travelling and the arts - lets create our journey together.

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Online: 2 weeks ago

Modified: 09 January 2025

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In Her Own Words

About her

My friend has written this profile so please forgive any spelling mistakes or grammar.

Why has my friend written this?
Mainly because she is not good at 'selling herself' and find the process uncomfortable. However, in her professional and personal life, she can put my mind to most things.
Alison is looking for a kind caring, loving and independent man who is looking for someone for the long term. She is adventurous, ambitious, confident, easygoing, faithful and generous.
She is fiercely independent and optimistic but also very loyal and loving but can be shy on first encounter and slightly unease. Get to know her and shes great fun, enthusiastic, exciting and smart.

Be aware she won't like right-wing political views or any form of racial intolerance. No Trump or Frage types or those who admire money and material wealth or come with very macho approach. You won't need to rescue her - she is very capable.

In general you should get to know her because she is totally a rare gem - someone who is loyal, honest, interesting and great to get on with. Respect comes to mind and that works both ways. She is great fun to be with and will try her hand at most things. Open conversation and trust are a must!

About her ideal match

She is looking for a man who is single or divorced/separated and without complications. If you are still married or in a complicated relationship, unable to make compromises and meet her halfway - she won't be for you.
The ideal man must have a good sense of humour, be creative, intelligent, have some emotional intelligence. Must like the outdoors (dogs) and be active. Be adventurous willing to try some sports (swimming, paddle boarding) be inspired by creativity and arts and culture and want to do things like go to theatre, galleries, shows and events. Enjoy travel and have some ideas for trips that you would like to go on.
You would need to be a Guardian reader - be familiar with popular culture (TV/ documentaries/ dramas etc) be interested in society/world affairs/care for the vulnerable and those without.

If you have got this far and are interested in connecting with Alison - that's great!

In your connection request please start your message with the words "Clear the cookies" and tell me why you think she might match for you and where would you take her on a first date. ?
She is also expecting the ideal match to be living nearby her - so tell us a local place you know that you like or would go to on a regular basis.

Thanks - I will pass on the best recommendations.
BTW this profile was updated on 9th Jan 2025.
So if you have already sent a message before then - you will need to send another. :-)

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Merton (Kingston on Thames), London, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
57
Star sign:
Leo
Height:
Ask me later
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Blue-Green
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual
Have children:
Yes, living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University
Occupation:
Health / Social Care
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Romanian; Spanish
Religion:
Agnostic

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 10 miles of postcode district KT2 (Kingston upon Thames)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
50 - 60
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Moderately important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
A wallflower
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Shy; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite colour:
Purple
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Travel
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; News
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Aerobics; Athletics; Canoeing; Dance; Hiking; Rowing; Running; Sailing; Snorkeling; Wakeboarding; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Thai; Vietnamese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
Once or twice a week
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Intelligence
Turn-offs:
Power; Wealth
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Work fewer hours
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Politics:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Saga Connections:
Nervous; Hopeful; Embarrassed
Honesty:
Extremely