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Stanley177

59 – Clacton-on-Sea (Thorrington), Essex, England

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Stanley177

59 – Clacton-on-Sea (Thorrington), Essex, England

Hopeful Romantic Gentleman Looking For A Lady Who Wants To Be Treated As A Lady.

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In His Own Words

About him

am a hopeful romantic, that is to say I hope romance is still out there and I’m lucky enough to find it.

What I am looking for is someone I can invest my very soul in. Someone who, in time hopefully, will wake up in the middle of the night, as we all do at our age! get back into bed and either sends a ‘LUV U’ text or call just to say goodnight again.
My fantasy is that I’ll find the lady who will be my last first kiss..
I am affectionate and tactile, I have no problem walking down the street hand in hand, stealing a kiss behind the menu in a coffee shop or between courses in a restaurant.
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NOT looking for O.N.S, F.W.B, or mucky texts or email
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I have many hobbies and interests from chess to target shooting. I grew up on or around farms and am happiest outdoors. I bought a paddle board last summer and still trying to master it.
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I have a head full of trivia (great for a pub quiz)

Music has always been a huge part of my life. I enjoy most genres (except free form jazz!) I was a working D.J. for over 40 years. I also have a collection of guitars and I’m slowly learning to play them.
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All photos taken within the last year

I class myself as an old fashioned in gentleman, I believe a lady should be treated right (opening doors, pulling out the ladies chair, topping up her drink, standing if the lady leaves the table, NO foul language) listening to her point of view. I'm a gentleman, NOT a misogynist.

I am polite and would never dream of ghosting someone, as harsh as it may sound if we were chatting and I wasn't feeling it. I would tell you as gently as possible, but I would tell you. I would appreciate the same courtesy in return.
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Thank you for your attention

About his ideal match

Good manners are a must have.

Someone laid back with an eclectic musical taste, and a chamileonic fashion sense.
At home outdoors, from dog walking, shooting, paddle boarding or hiking across the moors with an O.S map a cacoon tent, a backpack and compass.
I love a good game of chess so some interest in that would be great.
I am a meat eater but would respect your personal views on food.
And of course a nice Netflix binge, cuddled up on the sofa with a takeaway and maybe some wine or cocktails.
Physical appearance, body shape, colour of skin are not as important as a 'spark'
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As we've just had Christmas I’ll use that as an analogy.
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The best wrapped gift under the tree with all of the glitter, ribbons and bows may be the worst gift that you get.
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The one in a brown paper bag with the top taped down could contain the thing you want the most.
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What I am trying to say is that I never judge a book by its covers, the most interesting parts are contained in the chapters in-between.
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I know I may not appear to be everyone's cup of tea. But just as Orange is the new Black. So Tall, Dark and Handsome is now Shortish, Baldish and Roundish.
Fingers crossed 🤞🏿

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Clacton-on-Sea (Thorrington), Essex, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
59
Star sign:
Sagittarius
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
Stocky
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Dark Brown
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Further education
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Christian / Catholic

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district CO7 (Colchester)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
40 - 65
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 6" (168cm)
Body type:
Average; A few extra pounds; Other; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Average; Below Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Changes Often; Other
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University; Private school
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Sarcastic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
My pyjamas
Favourite colour:
Red
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Straight; Disappearing
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I have a full beard
Body hair:
Light
Body art:
Several tattoos
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Heavy Metal; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock
Reading:
I read books occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sci-Fi; Soap operas; Variety shows
Movie frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online.
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Music; Photography; Pottery; Writing poetry
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Backgammon; Camping; Chess; Cycling; Fishing; Golf; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Martial arts; Orienteering; Shooting; Squash; Stand Up Paddleboarding
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Italian
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I don't work
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I check in once a day
Family size:
I'm an only child
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Get promoted
Dream home:
In the country
Retirement plans:
Living in the country
Feelings about using Saga Connections:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Very