In His Own Words
About him
Thank you for taking the time to click on me.
I'm an honest guy who has led a fairly active life through both sport and work, and although I may be in the twilight of my career, (considering retirement), I still have a drive for life and an inquisitive nature.
Since rebooting my life, I have recently taken up art and enjoy drawing more than painting, but I will continue to splatter the canvas! I can spend hours wandering round museums and galleries...care to join me?
I like to walk, and try to get 4-5 miles in a day. I prefer football to rugby and regularly go to live games, (would really love some company, but appreciate this might not be your thing). I like to cook, but it's not the same when it's only for one!
Although I'm happy on my own, I'm looking to meet someone who is keen to build a long lasting relationship and it would be great to be able to share those special moments, or even the mundane ones, that can only be found in a strong and reliable partnership. Let's grow old together.
Drop me a line if you want to find out more....chatting over a coffee is easier.
All photos bar the wedding one taken from Dec 2025- Feb 2026
About his ideal match
Someone who is open, honest, kind and easy going. I don't need any drama.
I'm Ideally looking for someone to share my time with, whether that be conversation, coffee, lunch, dinner, cinema or theatre.
I'm looking for real friendship, true companionship, and ultimately a relationship built on trust that lasts.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district OX3 (Oxford) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
55 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Other | ||
Income: |
Solvent | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; Other | ||
Other languages: |
None; Other | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Independent; Loyal; Quiet; Realistic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Hair style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Date activities: |
A movie; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Movie Channels; News |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Horror; War |
Interests: |
Painting; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Football (Soccer) |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Feelings about using Saga Connections: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Very |








