In Her Own Words
About her
I’m a woman who enjoys life as it is, but believes it’s even better when shared. I’m independent, curious, and comfortable in my own skin. Friends describe me as warm, amusing company with a calm confidence - I enjoy good conversation, laughter, and everyday pleasures rather than drama.
I value kindness above all else. Life has taught me what matters, and I’m happiest with people who are thoughtful, emotionally aware, and genuine. I don’t rush, and I don’t play games. I enjoy conversations that have a little depth and don’t need to be filled with noise.
What I’m looking for
I’m interested in a relationship built on companionship and shared life - spending time together, talking, walking, cooking, travelling, or simply being comfortable in each other’s company.
Kindness is essential. So is physical presence - that indefinable sense of attraction and connection that can’t be forced or explained. I believe intimacy should feel natural and chosen, never assumed. I’m demisexual, which means I experience sexual attraction only after forming a deep emotional connection. I’m looking for someone who values companionship, trust, and shared life first - intimacy grows naturally from that connection. Age matters far less to me than vitality, warmth, and how a man carries himself. I’m drawn to men who are grounded, respectful, and at ease with who they are.
The small print
I’m not looking to be rescued, completed, or rushed. I’m open to something real, meaningful, and enjoyable - with the right person.
If you’re kind, present, and value connection over performance, we may well get along.
About her ideal match
A kind, thoughtful man with confidence and grounded energy, who values companionship, conversation, and shared experiences. Age matters less than vitality, curiosity, and a positive outlook. He’s independent, present, and ready for a meaningful, honest connection.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Brentwood, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
74 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district CM15 (Brentwood) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
62 - 73 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Medium; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Romance; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Politics; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Birdwatching; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Other |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Saga Connections: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
