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Amythyst

73 – Brighton, East Sussex, England

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In Her Own Words

About her

Friendly, funny and sometimes wise (apparently) I am recently single again. Also, according to my son I am rubbish at relationships but not good at giving up either. So it's a gamble but then there are no certainties- only the exploration and the experience.
Interests come and go but I am a life long gardener and cook - I cook out on my allotment when possible, write recipes and cook for friends. I like to read a lot and enjoy tv drama but also like live music- classical/ early stuff mostly. I occasionally write poetry and this year I am going back to my choir and thinking about pottery classes. Thanks to a previous datee on this site I have become hooked on listening to a very eclectic range of music - Fok, Kepa Junkera, Vuodet, Rufus Wainwright, Danish String Quartet, early Zappa.....
Since I retired from one role earlier this year I have found more effort needed to get out there- this week it's choir practice, storytelling in Newhaven and a political group challenging the current limitations on our freedom.
I have always walked/cycled but less so since the onset of osteoarthritis BUT on a good day I still manage 5k and am being lined up for the big hip op! Terrifying but a reality check too.
I've spent many years working with people in schools, social care and at end of life ( I will continue to be an End of Life Doula as long as there is need). Serious stuff, eh? Balanced, I believe by my very silly side!
I really value a deep 1:1. Listening as much as talking. That makes for deep connection and knowing.
I do spend some time standing and staring - mostly just wondering. ( both meanings).

About her ideal match

I'm looking for someone warm, energetic, quick to smile and comfortable within their own skin. Hidden depths would be a bonus as would a social conscience and an open ( but not woolly) mind.
Are you also a practical person who can make things? A gardener, woodworker, potter etc appeals to me as those skills take focus, care and creativity.
I'm not into sport but if you are then that's ok- we are mature enough to respect each other's interests.
I expect you have been a father- you will understand how important even adult children are and how they still come first.
Above all you are a kind human who works at being the best they can be and will enjoy and encourage my doing the same.

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Brighton, East Sussex, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
73
Star sign:
Aquarius
Height:
5' 5" (165cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
Ask me later
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Danish; French
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 100 miles of postcode district BN7 (Lewes)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
64 - 75
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 3" (191cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Grey; White
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English; Danish
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Philosophical; Thoughtful
Valued qualities:
Compassion; Contentment; Honesty; Kindness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics)
Favourite colour:
Yellow
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Long; Wild
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Disabilities:
I struggle with mobility
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Alternative; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Opera; Rock; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; Non-fiction
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Drama; Independent
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Music; Painting; Reading; Singing; Voluntary work; Writing poetry
Sport involvement:
Bored to death
Sports:
Birdwatching; Dance; Swimming; Walking; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I work only a few hours a week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Dislike):
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream home:
Eco home in the countryside
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Politics:
Green
Retirement plans:
Living in the country
Feelings about using Saga Connections:
Curious
Honesty:
Very