In His Own Words
About him
I’m a widower after fifty years of marriage. Life has had its share of weight, but I’m still someone who values kindness, good conversation, and a bit of creativity. I’d like to find someone to share the quieter moments with — and maybe a few smiles along the way.
I spent 30 years as an NHS paramedic, which taught me a lot about people, life, and what really matters.
For years, I walked my border terrier every day — I loved the rhythm of it, and the easy chats with people we met. I think life is at its best when it’s shared… even the simplest moments feel richer with someone beside you.
I’m more “feet up by an open fire” than marathon runner. I enjoy reading (often with a copy of Ariel by Sylvia Plath close by), listening to jazz in the evenings, and sketching or writing rather than watching television.
I like caf駸, good coffee, and unhurried conversation — the kind where time slips by without noticing. My tastes are a little eclectic: old radio comedies, classic TV like The Twilight Zone, late-night broadcasts, and the occasional retro computer game (I wrote one in the 1980s that’s somehow still being played… which feels like a small miracle).
I’m not a party person, don’t follow sport, and would always choose a relaxed dinner and good company over a noisy crowd. I do enjoy cooking — especially if there’s someone to share it with (and I make a decent meal, I’m told).
I’d love to meet someone warm, genuine, and emotionally aware — someone who enjoys conversation, laughter, and life’s quieter pleasures… and who might fancy joining me for coffee, a walk, or seeing where something gentle could grow.
My profile pictures were taken March 2026. Sorry about the sad eyes, not yet learned to smile again.
About his ideal match
.I’d like to find someone to share the quieter moments with — and maybe a few smiles along the way.
What His Friends Say
PJ58 hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Solihull (olton), West Midlands, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
68 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
51 - 73 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
PJ58 has not yet answered any of the optional questions that would tell you more about him.
